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The Leadership Mindset: Leading from the Inside Out

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In today’s ever-evolving world, leadership is no longer just about titles or positions—it’s about mindset.

The Leadership Mindset is a way of thinking, being, and leading that starts with personal responsibility and intentional growth. It’s not just about guiding others—it’s about mastering yourself first.

1. It Begins with Ownership

Great leaders don’t blame circumstances or point fingers. They take ownership. They recognize that leadership begins with leading themselves—their habits, attitudes, words, and reactions. Before you can influence others, you must take responsibility for your own growth.

“You cannot lead anyone else further than you have gone yourself.” – John C. Maxwell

2. Growth is Not Optional

A leadership mindset embraces lifelong learning. Reading, listening, reflecting, and seeking feedback aren’t side quests—they’re daily disciplines. Leaders aren’t born—they’re built through intentional effort and humble growth.

Ask yourself: What am I doing today to become the leader I want to be tomorrow?

3. People Over Power

True leadership is about service, not status. The leadership mindset puts people before power and purpose before personal gain. It chooses influence over authority, and integrity over applause.

Empathy, compassion, and humility aren’t weaknesses—they’re leadership superpowers.

4. Purpose Drives Performance

Leaders with the right mindset operate from a deep sense of purpose. They don’t drift—they drive. They understand their “why” and help others find theirs. When you know what matters most, your decisions, your energy, and your leadership all fall into alignment.

5. Resilience is Non-Negotiable

The leadership mindset knows how to get back up. Failure isn’t final—it’s feedback. Great leaders don’t crumble under pressure; they rise with purpose. When others quit, leaders persevere. Why? Because they’re not chasing success—they’re living with conviction.

Final Thoughts:

The Leadership Mindset isn’t something you switch on when you get a promotion or start a business. It’s a way of life. It’s forged in the quiet moments, the hard decisions, the daily disciplines, and the unseen sacrifices.

Whether you’re leading a team, a family, a church, or simply yourself—start with mindset. Because when your mindset is right, your leadership will follow.

-Because People Matter

KL

Affirmations

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Logsdon Trybe Morning Affirmation

• I am loved beyond measure.

• I am special and have a purpose.

• I am a child of God, filled with His joy, chosen and cherished.

• I will walk in kindness and confidence today.

• Today is a new adventure, and I am ready for it!

Do you have any affirmations that you say together as a family? Do you have any personal affirmations that you tell yourself?

This past week, God really impressed on my heart that this was an important piece missing from our family’s morning routine. We pray every morning before school but we did not have any affirmations so I spent time in prayer and focusing on what this would look like for our Trybe. The above is the end result….

Let me know what I need to add or change, share your family affirmations in the comments!

Affirmations can be a powerful tool, especially for kids, because they help shape their mindset and reinforce positive beliefs about themselves. Here’s why affirmations are beneficial:

1. Builds Confidence

Hearing and saying affirmations helps children internalize positive truths about themselves. This boosts their self-esteem and helps them face challenges with confidence.

2. Reinforces Identity

Affirmations like “I am a child of God” remind children of their spiritual identity, anchoring their worth in something unchanging rather than external validation.

3. Encourages a Positive Mindset

Starting the day with affirmations sets a positive tone, helping children focus on their strengths and approach the day with optimism and gratitude.

4. Combats Negative Thoughts

Affirmations can counteract doubts, fears, or negative self-talk by replacing them with uplifting and empowering truths.

5. Teaches Values

Affirmations often emphasize kindness, purpose, and joy, helping kids internalize values that guide their behavior and interactions with others.

6. Creates Routine and Stability

Repeating affirmations daily creates a meaningful routine, providing a sense of stability and grounding that children can carry into their day.

By using affirmations, you’re equipping your kids with tools to develop resilience, gratitude, and a strong sense of identity. These benefits can last a lifetime.

Beyond the Pulpit: The Power of Unlikely Sources and the Need for Jesus in the Storms

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Reflections on John 6:1-21

In the rush and rhythm of daily life, we often find ourselves handling responsibilities, challenges, and the unexpected on our own. We may not consciously exclude Jesus, but slowly, our actions begin to suggest that we’ve got things under control. John 6:1-21 is a passage that brings us back to the truth of our dependence on Christ, revealing how He works through unlikely sources and shows up in the storms of life when we need Him most.

An Unlikely Hero: The Young Boy’s Role in the Miracle

As Jesus stands before a hungry crowd of over 5,000 people, He challenges His disciples with a seemingly impossible task: feeding the multitude. It’s here that a young boy, whose name we do not know, becomes instrumental in this miraculous story. He steps forward with a humble offering—five barley loaves and two small fish. This simple lunch is insignificant when compared to the vast needs before them, but it’s exactly what Jesus uses.

Why would Jesus choose such an unlikely source? In a culture where children often had a low status, it would have been easy to overlook this boy. Yet, Jesus not only sees him but uses him as a vessel for His power. It’s a reminder that God often works through the unexpected and the overlooked.

The lesson here is profound: the size of our offering doesn’t matter, but the heart behind it does. The boy’s willingness to give what little he had becomes the catalyst for a miracle that feeds thousands. Jesus takes what is offered in faith—no matter how small—and multiplies it beyond imagination. This is true in our lives too. Often, we think that what we have to offer—our skills, our resources, our time—is too small to make a difference. But when placed in Jesus’ hands, even the smallest gift can become something extraordinary.

Setting Out Without Jesus: A Picture of Self-Reliance

As evening falls, the scene shifts from a mountainside filled with abundance to a stormy sea. The disciples board their boat and head for Capernaum, but this time, they set out without Jesus. It’s a subtle but significant detail. The One who had just performed a miracle in their midst is not with them as they face the unpredictable waters.

It doesn’t take long before trouble arises. A strong wind stirs up the sea, and the disciples find themselves struggling against the waves. In this moment, their decision to leave without Jesus mirrors a tendency that many of us share: the belief that we can handle things on our own. Whether it’s in our work, relationships, or day-to-day decisions, we often find ourselves navigating life as if we can manage just fine without God’s presence.

But the storm is quick to reveal our need. As the waves crash against the boat and fear sets in, the disciples realize that their strength is insufficient. It’s in this moment of desperation that Jesus comes to them, walking on the water and speaking words of reassurance: “It is I; don’t be afraid” (John 6:20).

Learning to Welcome Jesus Back into the Boat

The story of the disciples on the sea is a vivid illustration of our own lives. How often do we set out on our plans, our ventures, and our challenges without truly seeking Jesus’ presence? And how often do the storms of life catch us off guard, reminding us that we were never meant to do this alone?

The good news is that, like the disciples, we can welcome Jesus back into the boat. Even when we’ve tried to go it alone, He is never far off, ready to speak peace into our chaos and calm our fears. It’s a call for us to recognize our need for Jesus not just in the storms, but in every part of our journey.

Beyond the Pulpit: A Challenge for Everyday Life

John 6:1-21 offers two powerful challenges for us to take beyond the pulpit and into our daily lives:

1. Offer What You Have, Even When It Seems Small: The young boy’s story encourages us to bring our little to Jesus, trusting that He can do much with it. Whether it’s our time, our gifts, or our resources, God delights in using what we offer, no matter how small, for His greater purpose.

2. Don’t Leave Shore Without Jesus: The disciples’ story is a reminder that life’s journey is best navigated with Jesus in the boat. When we face challenges, uncertainty, or even the ordinary rhythms of life, let’s make it a habit to seek His presence, rather than assuming we can manage on our own. It’s better to weather the storm with Jesus than to struggle through calm waters alone.

In the end, both the young boy’s offering and the disciples’ stormy struggle point us back to the same truth: our need for Jesus. He is the source of abundance when we feel lacking, and He is the calm in the midst of chaos. As we go about our week, let’s strive to keep our hearts open to His presence, trusting that He can work through the unexpected and sustain us in every situation.